Relationship problems are not simply the "other couple's" issue anymore. These days many couples are facing challenges such as financial, communication or even simple disagreements on child rearing.
Online PR News – 13-July-2011 – – Relationship problems are not simply the "other couple's" issue anymore. These days many couples are facing challenges such as financial, communication or even simple disagreements on child rearing.
A basic understanding of a simple thing as how to effectively apologize can have a profound effect on relationships.
In a relationship disagreements and arguments are not necessarily the issue. The bigger problem is in how you proceed when there is a problem. After an argument there may be a need for one or both parties to apologize.
"Apology is like a scalpel, if used correctly it saves lives, loved ones and can cut away years of damage, but used incorrectly and it swiftly severs the heart from the body PERMANENTLY" says T.W. Jackson creator of The Magic Of Making Up.
T.W. goes on to say "I am sure you have heard of many instances where, not only women and men take partners back after affairs, but also where families have forgiven murderers, rapists and many more offenses much more awful than most couples do to each other.
There is a “formula” for an effective apology.
In many instances, this “formula” has proven to be the “turn around point” in healing a relationship. I have named this “formula” – The Clean Slate Method because it has the power to “wipe the slate clean” so a relationship can begin to heal".
Most people do not truly understand the purpose of an apology and to really apologize. It's not simply a matter of saying sorry, it's much more than that.
Said T.W. Jackson "Ask most anyone the purpose of an apology and they may tell you that it is to admit that you were wrong.
An admission of wrong doing.
Makes sense because that has been what most of us have been taught, either explicitly or implicitly.
And even the Oxford English Dictionary (OED) tells us "apology" meant a defense, a justification, an excuse. And that is exactly the way most of us apologize…”I am sorry, BUT…”
And it is EXACTLY why we are in so much hot water and pain in many of our relationships."
Http://relationshipsavingsecrets.com provides valuable tools and resources to help people save their relationship and get their ex back. Said relationship-secrets-founder Michael Roberts, "I was successful in saving my marriage and it's my goal to share my experience to help other peoplt in the same way".
To learn more and to take the first step to save your relationship visit the home page for a video that will show you the very first thing you must do to save your relationship.