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Online PR News – 18-November-2009 – – Ironically many dating experts agree, one of the worst lines a man can utter when he's asking out a woman is; 'Do you want to go Out on a Date with me?' Their reason. Asking someone 'Out' on a 'Date' with you, is a 'make or break' statement, which can often cause a woman to resist, rather than accept an invitation.
Because of this, dating experts often suggest erasing the words 'Date' and 'Out' entirely from your vocabulary, whenever you're asking a woman out. Instead, replacing them with words and phrases that are more neutral and far more likely to lead to a positive outcome.
While it sounds like a Catch 22, there's a wide variety of (neutral/low stress) ways to 'Ask Out' women, without asking her to go 'Out' on a 'Date' with you. Websites like FindMyGirlfriend.com (a free dating advice site for men) provides several excellent (2-5 minute) video examples of how to do this.
Experts also suggest keeping things very casual at first. Inviting her to join you in a fun activity, or a discussion (over coffee) in which you know you would both be interested, can help interest her and put the odds in your favor.
If you don't know her well, some conversational reconnaissance on your part will be needed to discover her interest. This quote by Benjamin Franklin sums up the importance of knowing someone's interest; "If you would persuade, you must appeal to interest rather than intellect."
Additional expert tips (and video examples) for engaging in conversations with women, can be found at the website noted earlier: www.FindMyGirlfriend.com